Cher’s Shocking Confession

In a candid revelation from her newly released memoir, *Cher: The Memoir, Part One*, music icon Cher opens up about a pivotal moment in her teenage years that involved losing her virginity under unexpected circumstances. At just 14, she experienced what she describes as “revenge sex,” spurred on by her feelings of being dismissed by a boy she liked.

A Bold Decision Driven by Rejection

Cher recounts a moment when a nearby boy, who had previously shown interest in her, suddenly “ditched” her after they shared a kiss. Feeling hurt and angry, she made a bold decision: “I was so angry at being dismissed, I decided to loan out my virginity to him,” Cher writes. She wanted to reclaim some control and power after feeling rejected.

Unexpected Reality of First Sexual Encounter

The Grammy-winning singer admits that her first sexual encounter was not what she anticipated. Cher describes it as a “massively overrated” experience. After it was over, she confronted the boy, asking him, “Is that it? Are we finished?” She then sent him away, hoping to impart the same sense of rejection she felt.

Lingering Feelings of Betrayal

In an interesting turn, the boy attempted to reconnect afterward, but Cher chose to cut ties, vowing never to speak to him again. The feelings of betrayal lingered, shaping her understanding of relationships at a young age.

Concerns About Her Mother’s Reaction

Cher’s memoir also touches on her fears about her mother’s reaction to her losing her virginity. She reflects on her mother’s warnings that she would be able to tell the moment Cher became sexually active. After the encounter, Cher humorously recalls racing to the mirror, half-expecting to see the word "SEX" flashing across her forehead, only to find herself unchanged — her mother seemingly none the wiser.

Cher’s Message to Her Friends

Furthermore, Cher wanted to ensure that her friends didn’t idealize the act of sex. “I told them that the ‘thing’ they were constantly talking about was no big deal and that they should carry on kissing,” she shared. Quite the message for adolescence, reminding her circle that growing up didn't have to be defined solely by intimate encounters.

Reflections on Love and Intimacy

Beyond her teenage exploits, Cher’s life has been filled with notable relationships, including her marriage to Sonny Bono from 1964 to 1975, and later to Gregg Allman from 1975 to 1979. Now at 78, her storied past offers insights not only into her personal development but also into the societal expectations of love and intimacy.

Cher’s Enduring Legacy

Cher’s memoir, which was released on November 19, goes deeper into her experiences and lessons learned throughout her captivating journey in the entertainment industry—a testament to her resilience and strength as one of pop culture’s most enduring figures.