Heartwarming Tribute for Mary Kennedy Keiley

In a remarkable display of compassion and dedication, Mary Kennedy Keiley, a retired nurse and teacher from Newfoundland, has been celebrated for her incredible volunteer work that spanned more than two decades, during which she washed the hair of bedridden patients at St. Clare’s Mercy Hospital. Her selfless act of kindness is a poignant reminder of the small yet powerful ways we can impact the lives of others.

A Personal Commitment

The roots of her devotion trace back to her own experience as a patient at a tuberculosis sanatorium in the 1960s, where she faced the discomfort of not being allowed to wash her hair. This difficult period ignited a lifelong commitment to ensuring that others in similar conditions would receive the care and dignity they deserved. “I vowed that if I ever got back on my feet, I would wash patients’ hair,” Keiley recalled.

Volunteer Journey Begins

Just weeks after retiring in 1994, 89-year-old Keiley began her volunteer journey, appearing at the hospital every Saturday at 9 a.m., equipped with shampoo and a makeshift washing tray. Her enthusiasm and commitment to her weekly routine drew admiration from both patients and staff. “I just loved going in there. Seeing them before and then after, it was so worthwhile,” Keiley stated, showcasing her genuine passion for service.

Recognition with the Confederation Medal

This week, she was one of 18 deserving individuals awarded the prestigious Confederation Medal for her valuable contributions to the community since Newfoundland and Labrador joined Canada 75 years ago. Her journey into the nursing profession began in 1959 at the same hospital where she later volunteered, graduating from a nursing school run by nuns.

Impact on Nursing Staff and Patients

While some nurses were initially hesitant about her volunteer hair-washing, stating it infringed upon their duties, it quickly became evident that Keiley’s efforts provided a much-needed service, allowing the busy nurses to focus on their medical duties. Her mission soon attracted the support of fellow retired nurse Joanne Noonan Hogan, and together they rigorously maintained a schedule that saw them wash roughly eight patients’ hair each week, totaling over 8,000 patients during their years of service.

Meticulous Care in Action

The process was meticulous yet delicate. Keiley and Hogan ensured care was taken, avoiding any medical equipment or sensitive areas during the washing. They slowly poured water from a jug, using makeshift containers, reflecting an era of resourcefulness that resonates even today.

Cherished Connections with Patients

Throughout her service, Keiley formed lasting bonds with many of her patients, recalling heartfelt exchanges that she cherishes. One particular interaction with a grateful elderly man left a lasting impression: “When I was finished, he said, 'My dear, there'll be a lot of people at your funeral,'” Keiley recalled, bursting into laughter.

Forever Remembered: Sister Mary Xavierius

One touching memory involves Sister Mary Xavierius, a 100-year-old former head of the nursing school at St. Clare’s. Keiley washed her hair on what would be the last day of Sister Mary’s life, who expressed her gratitude by saying, “I’m so lucky to have – and I’m so fond of – the women in my life.”

A Legacy of Kindness and Inspiration

Despite receiving accolades like the Confederation Medal, Keiley remains modest, hoping her story will inspire more retired healthcare professionals to volunteer their time and talents at hospitals. “It makes such a difference to patient care,” she asserted, recalling how patients eagerly awaited her visits, declaring, “‘Mine, mine, mine!’” when asked if they needed their hair washed.

Continuation of Her Good Work

Keiley's legacy continues even today, as her inspiring initiative motivated the hospital auxiliary to establish a structured volunteer hair-washing program, ensuring that her spirit of kindness will live on, blessing future patients at St. Clare’s Mercy Hospital for years to come.