Jennifer Lopez is choosing to look forward, not back. The 55-year-old star recently opened up about her challenging year, which included filing for divorce from Ben Affleck after two years of marriage. A close source reveals that it was not an easy decision for Lopez, as she didn't want the marriage to end but felt she had no choice.

The actress cited April 26 as the couple's separation date when she filed for divorce in August, following a summer spent apart on opposite coasts. "She was very upset about it," the insider shared, emphasizing Lopez's positive attitude despite the heartbreak. "True to her optimistic outlook, she's moving forward. She's not seeing this as a failure; instead, she believes it was meant to be."

Currently, Lopez is taking time for reflection and personal growth. The source noted her gratitude for the beautiful memories created with Affleck while underscoring her focus on crafting a bright future for herself and her children, twins Emme and Max, who are now 16 years old.

Amidst these changes, Jennifer is keeping busy. She recently attended the Toronto International Film Festival to promote her upcoming film "Unstoppable," which was produced by Affleck and Matt Damon through their production company, Artists Equity. The event marked a professional milestone as she continues to pursue her career passionately.

The amicable ex-couple has been spotted together, including a lunch outing in Los Angeles with their children. Lopez appreciates seeing her kids enjoy time with their step-siblings, as Affleck shares three children with ex-wife Jennifer Garner: Violet, 18, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12.

Affleck has been keeping a hectic schedule as well, spotted on set for his latest film project just recently. Insiders suggest he thrives in a busy environment, which could be a vital component as he navigates this transitional phase in his life post-divorce.

Despite the heartbreak, both stars appear to be prioritizing their careers and family, indicating a hopeful path forward for both Lopez and Affleck. Will they maintain their friendship for the sake of their children? Both stars seem committed to giving their kids the best upbringing possible.