A Tough Choice for a Devoted Father

Colin Farrell has faced a gut-wrenching decision regarding the future of his 21-year-old son, James, who lives with Angelman syndrome. In a recent interview, the star revealed the challenges of placing James in a long-term care facility, a move that no parent takes lightly.

Fears for the Future

The 48-year-old actor expressed his deep concerns about what could happen if both he and James’ mother, Kim Bordenave, were to suddenly be unable to care for him, stating, "What if I have a heart attack tomorrow? Or, God forbid, if something happened to Kim? Then James would be left all alone." This fear drives Farrell's decision, highlighting the overwhelming responsibilities parents face when caring for a child with special needs.

Seeking the Best for James

Together, Farrell and Bordenave are on a mission to find a nurturing and supportive environment for James, where he can thrive. They hope to choose a facility that allows them to visit regularly and keep strong bonds with their son. Farrell emphasized, "We want him to find somewhere where he can have a full and happy life, where he feels connected."

Understanding Angelman Syndrome

Angelman syndrome, a rare genetic disorder, affects a child's development, causing significant challenges in communication, movement, and cognitive abilities. With a history of seizures and mental disability, every milestone for those with the condition is a victory, making Farrell’s journey with James particularly poignant.

A Legacy of Kindness

In August 2024, Farrell announced plans to establish a foundation in honor of his beloved son, aiming to spread awareness and promote kindness towards individuals with disabilities. "I want the world to treat James with kindness and respect," he shared with People, showcasing his commitment to advocating for others.

Personal Reflections on Fatherhood

During the interview, Farrell candidly reflected on his emotional moments, including the overwhelming joy he felt when James took his first steps just days before his fourth birthday. These experiences, coupled with James' health challenges, have played a pivotal role in Farrell's own journey to sobriety. He explained, "My son has inspired a tireless desire to live and support him, even when I was struggling with my own demons."