
An SME Employee's Nightmare: Alone on a Project for 8 Months—Will He Break Down or Break Free?
2025-03-25
Author: Jia
Singapore's SME Work Environment
A Singaporean employee working for a Small and Medium-sized Enterprise (SME) has bravely shared his distressing experience of managing a crucial project all alone for eight grueling months. With no support from higher management, his sole feedback has been the scoldings he receives when mishaps occur.
Struggles and Responsibilities
In a heartfelt post on the r/askSingapore subreddit, he expressed feelings of exhaustion and anxiety, stating, “I dread every single day of work. I feel so drained and undervalued. The anxiety of waiting for criticism is consuming me. I feel like I'm losing myself in this job.”
Despite his dedication, he grapples with self-doubt, questioning if his struggles signify weakness. He highlighted the bitter reality organizations face in the SME sector, where employees often must shoulder responsibilities that should ideally be spread across multiple team members due to staffing shortages.
Rigid Work Culture
Adding to his predicament is a rigid work culture—working from home is not permitted, and even finishing tasks early doesn’t grant him the liberty to leave the office. He voiced frustration at having to complete mandatory weekly updates and timesheets, pondering the necessity of such bureaucratic tasks amidst an already overwhelming workload.
Colleague Perspectives
His lament is not isolated; many colleagues at his company endure the same fate, trapped in a cycle of overwork while management continues to take on more projects despite their constrained resources. “They acknowledge that they are overburdening their experienced staff, leading many to serve out their contracts and leave as soon as they can,” he shared.
Shared Experiences on Reddit
Others chimed in on the Reddit thread, recounting similar tales of wretched working conditions in SMEs. One individual reflected on a harrowing ten-month experience, locked in demanding overtime and facing management that dismissed their struggles. “We even had to sign an agreement cutting our pay by 20%. That was my breaking point,” they said.
Another user recounted their harrowing ordeal of being subjected to abusive treatment: “Every day felt like an uphill battle. My boundaries were disregarded, and when I expressed my limits, I was chastised for being ‘disloyal.’ The work consumed my life; I couldn't even enjoy vacations without being pressured to handle work.”
Advice from Experienced Redditors
Fortunately, this collective narrative led some experienced Redditors to advise prioritizing mental health over toxic job environments. Practical wisdom was offered, such as moderating work pressures and seeking employment opportunities elsewhere. “Remember, in corporate culture, more work only leads to getting assigned more work. Focus on your designated responsibilities and start preparing for a better opportunity,” one user noted supportively.
Financial Despair and Broader Discussion
In a starkly different post, another Redditor shared their financial despair, confessing to losing around $20,000 in trading—a cautionary tale of greed and the pitfalls of ignoring warning signs from loved ones. Such stories have fueled a growing dialogue in Singapore about the mental toll of high-pressure work environments and unsustainable financial pursuits.