SINGAPORE: The Importance of Domestic Workers

In the bustling society of Singapore, the importance of domestic workers cannot be understated. Many of these dedicated helpers come from neighboring and less affluent countries, yet they play a vital role in the daily lives of countless families.

Beyond Standard Job Descriptions

While these domestic helpers are classified as employees, their roles go far beyond standard job descriptions. They frequently spend extensive time with families, often taking on responsibilities for child care and elder care, forging deep bonds during their time together. Over the years, it’s not uncommon for these helpers to become regarded as family members, particularly when they’ve been around to support children throughout their formative years.

Profound Connections

A recent feature by CNA highlighted the profound connections that can develop between families and their helpers, particularly focusing on three Filipina domestic workers who have become integral to the families they serve. As trust builds, and both sides adjust to each other's habits and routines, the relationship often evolves into one of mutual respect and affection. This emotional connection is crucial, as families often entrust their most vulnerable members—children and the elderly—to the care of these helpers.

Expressions of Appreciation

Stories abound of employers inviting their helpers on vacations or surprising them with gifts, showcasing a level of appreciation and affection that transcends the traditional employer-employee dynamic. In return, many helpers are able to enhance their own lives back home, building homes, sending their children to school, and providing a better standard of living for their families.

Heartfelt Sentiments

A heartfelt statement shared by a daughter of one employer expressed, “To me, she lives in the house; she’s family.” Similarly, a young boy joyfully declared to his family’s helper, “You are not my maid. You are my aunty.” These sentiments resonate strongly in Singaporean households where helpers are embraced as part of the family.

Emotional Bonds

One comment from an employer poignantly noted, “My helper is like a sister to me and a second mom to my adult kids! My only request upon hiring her was that my children’s care was the top priority. Housework was secondary!”

Social Benefits of Familial Treatment

The impact of treating domestic helpers as family extends beyond individual households. Ming En Liew, a writer for The Homegrown Asia, emphasized the social benefits, suggesting that fostering such relationships could cultivate a more compassionate society. Viewing these workers as extensions of our families promotes understanding and creates harmonious living and working environments for both parties.

Effective Communication

Linda Seh, with over 20 years of experience in the employment industry, highlighted the practical advantages of this familial treatment. 'You’ll notice that when you treat a foreign domestic helper like family, communication flows effortlessly,' she noted. 'They become more open, engaged, and productive in their work.'

Conclusion: A Community Embracing Helpers as Family

In conclusion, the Filipino community, particularly, showcases the heartwarming truth that in many Singaporean households, these helpers are much more than just maids; they are integral family members who contribute significantly to the fabric of everyday life. Understanding and nurturing these relationships not only enriches the lives of employers and helpers but also strengthens Singaporean society as a whole.