SINGAPORE: The journey into gambling addiction often begins innocently, but can spiral out of control.

For Andreas Sow, it all started at the age of 15 with a S$50 (US$37) bet. As the years went by, Andreas found himself drawn into illegal gambling, culminating in staggering losses of over S$500,000 over 15 years.

The impact of his addiction was profound. Relationships suffered — his friends distanced themselves, his mother threatened to disown him, and his parents questioned whether his then-girlfriend should still consider marrying him. "I tried to quit on my own — I even cut up my ATM card — but I just kept relapsing. Life felt meaningless when I was broke all the time," he shared with CNA.

His turning point came when he joined a support group facilitated by Blessed Grace Social Services. While relapse was part of his initial experience — occurring twice in the first year — a supportive environment and continual counseling helped him regain control over his gambling habits. Now, five years into his recovery journey, Andreas is a proud father of two, with a third child on the way.

Andreas’s story reflects a broader trend in Singapore. Although gambling rates among adults are declining, illegal online gambling is witnessing an upward trajectory, as reported in a recent survey by the National Council on Problem Gambling. The survey indicated a 0.7 percentage point rise in illegal online gambling, reflecting a global increase in this concerning trend. Of over 3,000 residents surveyed, 40% engaged in gambling, marking the lowest participation rate in 18 years, with traditional betting games like 4D and TOTO remaining the most popular.

Blessed Grace Social Services emphasizes the power of shared experiences in encouraging individuals struggling with addiction. Half of the original members of its recovery groups continue to participate actively, helping others who seek to turn their lives around. Founded in 2014 by Pastor Billy Lee, the organization aims to support individuals who find themselves in a cycle of despair related to gambling. "They often know they have a problem, but can't escape their addiction alone," he explained.

According to Dr. Melvyn Zhang from the Institute of Mental Health's National Addictions Management Service, gambling addiction bears similarities to substance abuse disorders. He notes that men typically develop gambling problems earlier than women, and factors such as family history of addiction, mental health disorders, and impulsive behavior can increase vulnerability.

Despite the hardships faced by those struggling with gambling addiction — including heightened risks of depression and even suicidal thoughts — recovery is possible. Staff at Blessed Grace guide clients on their journey, with recovery often taking at least two years for individuals to feel securely on the path, and five years for significant milestones.

One notable success story is that of William Lee, who became addicted to football betting in 2010 out of boredom. His attempts to finance his addiction led him into a cycle of borrowing from friends and illicit lenders. After his debts mounted, he left his hometown in Malaysia to work in Singapore but ultimately lost his job to gambling. Seeking help, William turned to Blessed Grace last year, where he has found peace and happiness in his life. While he acknowledges he must remain vigilant, he now helps newcomers at the center, sharing his story to offer hope and encouragement.

"I want to inspire others," he says. "They can change their lives just like I did."

Recovery is not just about healing; it's about lifting others up along the way, creating a community where individuals can reclaim their lives from the grips of addiction.