
Shocking Confession: Man Admits to Years of Abuse Against Stepdaughter, Pressures Victim to Recant
2025-04-14
Author: Daniel
In a harrowing case that has gripped Singapore, a 33-year-old man confessed on April 14 to carrying out horrific sexual abuse against his stepdaughter over a span of three years when she was just nine to twelve years old.
Pressuring the Victim: A Disturbing Twist
The High Court heard chilling details as prosecutors revealed that both the man and the victim’s mother actively pressured the young girl to withdraw her allegations after the abuse was reported to the authorities. The mother even went so far as to place blame on her daughter, claiming she had lied to seek freedom.
A Guilty Plea with More Charges Pending
On the day of his plea, the man admitted guilt to one count of rape, one count of outrage of modesty, and one count of cheating in an unrelated case. Six additional charges, predominantly related to sexual offenses against the victim, loom over him as potential factors during sentencing.
The Timeline of Abuse: A Heartbreaking Reality
The disturbing timeline dates back to December 2017, shortly after the man married the victim's mother. Being the only male figure in her life, the child regarded him as a father figure. However, this would soon turn into a nightmare.
The first assault occurred while the girl’s mother was working a night shift. The man invaded her personal space, lying beside her on the lower bunk of a double-decker bed, where her younger sisters innocently slept above. This heinous pattern of abuse continued monthly.
A Cry for Help: The Victim’s Bravery
In early 2021, the victim began to document her feelings about the abuse on her phone. One particularly haunting note read: "You will be in jail already if I had told anyone about this." After the abuser discovered her note, threats followed, compelling her to remain silent.
Yet, in March or April 2021, the girl confided in a friend, who urged her to report the abuse. Paralyzed by fear of repercussions, she hesitated. The last assault occurred on July 14, 2021, prompting her and her friend to finally devise a plan to go to the police.
Breaking the Silence: The Victim Takes Action
On July 17, 2021, the victim disclosed the abuse to her friend's mother during a birthday celebration. The police were contacted, leading to the man's arrest that very night. He vehemently denied the allegations, but forensic evidence later confirmed the victim's truth.
Pressure from the Family: A Twisted Manipulation
Fast forward to June 2022, the ordeal took another unsettling turn when the mother sent a message to the man, revealing plans to persuade the victim to recant her statement. Overwhelmed by pressure from her family, the girl attempted to escape their grasp.
A Grim Future Awaits
As the court proceedings unfold, the man faces a maximum sentence of 20 years for rape, alongside potential fines or caning. The family dynamic is irrevocably shattered, and the spotlight is now firmly on the justice system to deliver a fair outcome.
This case serves as a dark reminder of the vulnerabilities faced by children in abusive environments and the courage it takes to break the silence.