Introduction

In a heart-wrenching testimony, LaOneda Carpenter recounted the tragic death of her 12-year-old daughter, Mariah, by suicide. Speaking publicly for the first time at a Mother’s Day luncheon in May 2017, Carpenter felt compelled to honor her daughter’s memory. Following this, she took a brave step forward, publishing a book titled *Mariah’s Voice* in December 2017, and became a vocal advocate on the dire issue of youth mental health, speaking at events across Mississippi, Alabama, and throughout the southeastern United States.

The Pain of Loss

Carpenter candidly expressed the pain she endures, noting, “It is a feeling that you will never get over… now there are more parents burying kids than children burying parents. It wasn’t designed that way.” Her sentiment highlights a disturbing trend in the nation: the rising suicide rates among preteens, which have dramatically surged in recent years. A published study by the National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH) reveals that suicide was the 11th leading cause of death among female preteens from 2001 to 2007, escalating to the 5th leading cause by 2022.

Addressing the Challenge

Dr. Arielle Sheftall, an Associate Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Rochester Medical Center, emphasizes the challenge of addressing this issue due to the stigma surrounding mental health and suicide. She posits that open conversations within communities are crucial for prevention. Many are now uncovering risk factors unique to preteens, such as connections to neurodevelopmental disorders like ADHD (Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder), which may precede suicidal thoughts and behaviors.

Escalating Statistics

The alarming trend extends beyond statistics: according to the CDC, as of 2023, 30% of young females have seriously contemplated suicide, a striking 60% increase from just ten years ago. This escalation has prompted legislative inquiries and recommendations, particularly regarding mental health crises in the Black community, culminating in initiatives like the 2019 “Ring the Alarm: The Crisis of Black Youth Suicide in America.”

Cyberbullying and Advocacy

Mariah was affected by cyberbullying, a pervasive issue that underscores the urgency for technology to act responsibly and for communities to support victims. Tragically, after Mariah’s death, her mother discovered evidence of self-harm, hidden notes, and the deep pain her daughter had faced alone. LaOneda Carpenter has since transformed her sorrow into advocacy, participating in awareness programs like the Mississippi Museum of Art's *Mind Frame: Exploring Mental Health Through Film*, which features discussions about mental health challenges facing youth today.

Call for Education

Carpenter echoes the call for improved mental health education, suggesting annual community conferences and the incorporation of mental health topics into school curriculums, aiming to equip children with the knowledge to recognize signs of distress in themselves and others.

Research Initiatives

At the forefront of this movement, Dr. Sheftall is conducting vital research on at-risk youth aged 6 to 11, focused on emotional regulation, family dynamics, and the role of schools in fostering supportive environments. This initiative aims to illuminate protective measures while addressing harmful influences that preteens face.

Community Efforts

Among the community efforts, the Quitman School District has launched a mentoring program targeting grades three through eight to address mental health and social skills. Dr. Minnie Dace spearheads this initiative, which connects students with trained community mentors to create a supportive and understanding environment.

Transformative Experiences

Participants in such programs, like Detra McCarty, emphasize the importance of fostering self-esteem and emotional resilience in youth, offering a transformative experience for students who may feel isolated or bullied. They report noticeable improvements in behavior and school performance among mentees, proving the importance of community support and intervention.

Spreading Awareness

Meanwhile, Carpenter continues to share Mariah's story, tirelessly advocating for youth mental health awareness beyond the southeastern United States. She firmly believes, “They have a voice, and they have a choice, and suicide is not the one.”

Conclusion

As the nation grapples with this silent crisis, it becomes increasingly clear: the collective effort of educators, mental health professionals, and community members is crucial in preventing the tragic loss of young lives to suicide. The time for conversation is now; let us break the silence and empower our youth before it's too late.