Tori Spelling's Heartfelt Confession

Tori Spelling has bravely opened up about her insecurities and emotional burdens as a single mother to five children following her recent split from husband Dean McDermott. In a heartfelt episode of her podcast misSPELLING, Spelling spoke candidly with psychologist Dr. Hillary Goldsher, revealing the ups and downs of navigating motherhood amidst the chaos of her personal life.

"I fear they feel somewhere deep down abandoned," Spelling admitted, her voice filled with emotion. The actress, known for her role in Beverly Hills, 90210, highlighted that ever since her separation in June 2023, life has felt like a perpetual struggle. "With five kids, whether it's emotionally, physically, or financially, it's been a constant challenge," she stated.

Navigating the Challenges of Single Parenthood

Tori filed for divorce in March after 18 years of marriage to McDermott, and they now share the responsibility of raising their five children: Liam, 17, Stella, 16, Hattie, 12, Finn, 11, and Beau, 7. McDermott also has a son, Jack, 25, from a previous relationship.

As Spelling reflected on her past, she noted that her earlier motherhood experience was marked by stability, thanks to her successful business ventures, which included various television shows and product lines. However, she lamented that things have drastically changed, leaving her feeling unsteady in her role as a mother. “I'm in a business where things aren't consistent. I feel like I'm constantly letting them down,” she revealed, expressing the challenging dichotomy of providing unconditional love while grappling with instability.

Co-Parenting and Family Dynamics

Despite a seemingly amicable relationship with McDermott as they navigate co-parenting, Spelling admits the pressures of single motherhood are immense. The actress shared that her eldest daughter, Stella, often takes on the role of "the second mom." This is a role she embraces, but it concerns Tori, as Stella juggles her own responsibilities in high school along with family duties. “I feel really guilty when I come home at the end of the day,” Tori confided. “I'm putting my job onto her, and that feels bad inside.”

Adding to her woes, Spelling expressed that she fears her children may feel neglected due to her busy schedule, which affects the individual attention she wishes she could provide. "I feel like I'm not able to give them the individual attention on a daily basis that I'd like to," she said.

A Shared Journey of Struggle

Tori Spelling's candid revelations shed light on the struggles many parents face, particularly in challenging circumstances. Her words resonate with countless single parents navigating similar waters, reminding us of the unseen battles behind closed doors. If you’re interested in hearing her full story and more insights from her journey through motherhood, be sure to check out the latest episode of her podcast.